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sweetie_small1 Gratitude [grat.i.tude]: Big time buzzword during spiritual awakening phase of planetary evolution, yet this is often misunderstood. And in today’s economic times, we tend to forget what we are grateful for. All we do is look at what we don’t have. I know it can be difficult to concentrate and focus on what is good in our life when it seems as if all that is happening to us is bad.

We have talked about the law of attraction and saying your “I am” statements. Well, when you think thoughts of “thanks”, it’s the same as thinking thoughts of having received. As is true of all thoughts on the plane of manifestation, they must immediately strive to manifest into your time-space life.

Yet the only way there can be a manifestation of such thoughts is if you do actually physically receive. And the only way you can actually physically receive is if all the players and circumstances of your life are literally shifted around and manipulated, without you or them even knowing what’s going on, so that you will be predisposed to the right ideas, hunches, connections and introductions that will deliver you smack into the middle of such manifestations.

Take some time to write your “I am” statements. If you have already done this, you’re awesome and on your way to receiving. (You might want to revise your list). Start off by writing, at the top of the page, “I am so happy and grateful now that…”, and then finish the sentance. Here are a few of mine:

I am so happy and grateful now that…
I am helping people become healthier and wealthier
I am a people and money magnet
I am attracting like-minded, business building people into my Max buisness every day.

Say your “I am” statements numerous times per day and say them with feeling and BELIEVING.

Take the focus off of what you don’t have (bigger house, expensive car, enough money, bad health, etc) and start focusing on what you are grateful for (food on the table, roof over your head, family, friends, your health, etc.) and what you want. Stop saying “I don’t have this”, or “I don’t have that”, or “I’ll never make a lot of money” or “I’ll never meet the man/woman of my dreams” or “I’m broke”. Everytime you say something negative you are manifesting that into your life. Is that what you want?

Start manifesting what you do want by saying your “I am” statements through out the day, and be grateful for what you do have. Remember, it’s not what happens to you that matters, it’s what you do about what happens to you.

Here’s another one “I am so happy and grateful now that money flows abundantly and frequently into my bank account every day”.

To Your Wealth…

Debbie James

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Now, more than ever, what is your plan “B”? These economic times we are living in are scary. (It is said the worst economic times since the Great Depression!!!) Did you know that Corporations borrow money to make payroll? Yes, they do! With this credit crunch, it effects companies, small, medium and large. Small businesses can’t get the loans they need to carry them thru slower times, employees can’t get paid, home buyer’s can’t close on their home since the bank doesn’t have the funds, people can’t buy cars with a 700+++ credit score because the banks don’t have the money to lend!

While somethings are out of our control….your finances are in your control. Take action, do something. Don’t just complain about how bad the economy is. Make something happen. You can do it! Have you seen the movie The Secret”? You are exactly where you are in life, because YOU attracted everything into your life.

Now, that might be tough to swallow…but I’m here to tell you, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ACCEPT THE STATUS QUO! Too many people would rather sit back and complain or blame someone else. So much easier than taking responsibility. Don’t be left behind. EVERYONE IS LOOKING TO EARN ADDITIONAL INCOME!

Check out this INCREDIBLE opportunity! Lose weight, have more energy and make money, all at the same time! Join TODAY, and Live Your Life to the Max.

See you at the top!

Debbie James

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Where do you want to be in 1 month, 6 months, 1 year, 3 years, 5 years? Do you have your goals in writing? And do you believe you can achieve these goals. Break up the time frames into “bit size” pieces. You want to stretch yourself and yet you don’t want to never reach your goals, either.

If you don’t believe, why don’t you? Is it because someone has told you that you can’t do something, that you will never amount to anything, your too short, too tall, too fat, too skinny, etc.  What is in your heart?

When I was only 9 years old, my dad passed away. Shortly after that, I started to ride horses. My uncle bought me my first lesson and the rest was history. When I was 11, my mom and soon to be step-dad, bought me my first pony. As time went on and I got more and more competitive and my dream was to qualify and ride in Madison Square Garden. (That is “the place to ride”…kind of like the Superbowl for football). My parents NEVER believed it would happen. They didn’t stop me from trying and when I would tell them my dream, they would just say “that’s nice”. My mom would tell me that I could do whatever I put my mind to. At the age of 16, I did qualify and ride in Madison Square Garden (NYC). What a dream come true.

As a child, we really don’t know any better than to believe. It’s child like faith. Children don’t know or understand whether they can or can’t do something, unless an adult tells them they can or can’t. Kids are like sponges, they absorb and understand much more than adults give them credit for. They don’t have any preconceived notions. It is the parent’s responsibility to teach their kids right from wrong. Where to they get the right, though, to discourage their child from achieving their goals and dreams? I have been around many kids where the parents are so supportive and encouraging. It is truly amazing how children respond to that kind of positive reinforcement. Somewhere along the way, as we get older, we seem to lose our child like faith. Why?

We fall into everyday routines. We go to school, college, graduate and get a J.O.B. with a B.O.S.S. We go to work for someone else, live our live on a 5 day work week and never seem to make enough to get ahead. Sound familiar? As Robert Kiyosaki describes in Rich Dad, Poor Dad, we are in a rat race…just going thru the maze of life trying to get ahead financially and win the race.

Let’s change that thought process.

Until next time…

To Your Success.

Debbie James
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Abundant Wealth is also about attracting anything and everything into your life, whether good or bad. Wealth means different things to different people. You can have incredible relationships, fabulous family life, love your job and not have a lot of money and still be wealthy. Not everyone is money motivated. And living a wealthy life is not just about the money, it’s about the “whole” package.

So, what are you doing to attract and manifest what you want in your life? Here’s a great example…the other day I said to my husband “You should call Mark Anthony.” Mark is a business aquaintance <!– /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:””; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:”Times New Roman”; mso-fareast-font-family:”Times New Roman”;} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} –>
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of ours who we have not spoken with in over 2 years. We have some business stuff going on which Mark can help us grow. Friday night my husband gets a voice mail from Mark saying I was going thru some stuff and just happened to come across your number!!! You see, I put it out there to The Universe.

Here’s another example: I had a rental property in Atlanta where I had to evict the tenant for non-payment. She lived there for 3 years and totally trashed the home. Cost me lots of money to get the home in the condition where I could sell it. This was last summer. Most of you know what is going on in Real Estate, or should I say not going on. Took a few months and by October 2007 it was ready to be listed. Got it listed and right after that I said “I am so happy and grateful now that I sold Westover.” (Westover was the name of the street the home was on.) I said it every day, multiple times per day. Here is the key…I said it with feeling and a belief that I had already sold the home. There were no doubts in my mind that it would sell. I put it out to The Universe and believed. On February 19, 2008 I sold the home. No one could believe it sold that quickly. Everyone would ask “How did you sell your home in such a bad market.” My answer was always “I believed it would sell.”

Imagine if everyday I woke up and said “My home on Westover Lane is never going to sell.” What kind of message does that put out? If you want to meet the man of your dreams and all you ever say is “I’m never going to meet anyone” what do you think you will get? Or if you say “I’m broke,” I will never make money in my job.” What do you think The Universe (or the genie in the bottle says) “Your wish is my command.”

Think about what you say and how you say it, and watch your life change. It won’t happen overnight and it will feel strange at first…you must believe. In my previous post I have a poem about Change…

To Your Success,

Debbie James
Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

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When it comes to thinking or believing or doing, which way do you go…with the heard of “sheep” or do you go with your gut, regardless of what others say or think? Do you do what everyone else does? Do you think the way everyone else thinks? Do you believe that the only way to earn a living is to have a J.O.B. with a B.O.S.S.? Do you believe someone when they tell you you can’t do something?

With the exception of someone telling me I couldn’t do something, I was that person. Upon graduating college in1987, I worked in Corporate America until 2003. I didn’t know any better….until 2000 when I got involved with a network marketing company, Quixtar. What an education. To think I didn’t have to work for someone for the rest of my life. There is NO job security anymore.  The only person you can rely upon is yourself.

While Quixtar was not the opportunity I was looking for, it’s a great company. It opened my eyes to residual income, which is passive income. Think about what it would feel like to wake up with more money in your bank account than when you went to sleep!

Here is a poem my Mom gave me many years ago. I still have it on my refrigerator:

If you always think what you’ve always thought,
Then you will always feel what you’ve always felt,
Then you will always do what you’ve always done.
If you always do what you’ve always done,
Then you will always get what you’ve always gotten.
If you always get what you’ve always gotten,
Then you will always think what you’ve always thought.
Author Unknown

Are you where you want to be financially? Do you have the type of relationships you want? Are you happy with where you are in life?

If you have answered no to any of these questions and others, maybe it’s time for a CHANGE.

Debbie James
Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

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The state of being rich and affluent; having a plentiful supply of material goods and money. “

While it is said that “money won’t make you happy”, my friend Steve says “Yes it does!”….and I have to agree with him! 🙂 What money does though, is give you freedom and choices. (If you think money will make you happy, think again).  Why do some people have a lot of money and others don’t? Stay tuned for more…

What is your definition of wealth? What are your long-term goals? Do you have a 5 year plan? Do you have “I am” statements??? Do you know what an “I am” statement is? If not, stay tuned…

I’m excited to share my thoughts on this blog about attracting what you want into your life. Napolean Hill said “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it ALWAYS achieves.” Henry Ford said “Whether you believe you can or believe you can’t, either way, you’re right. What you think about you bring about. That is “The Law of Attraction”…the secret to “The Secret”. What do you believe?

Any questions, please contact me. Drop me an email and let me know what questions you have.

To your success.

Debbie James

“Energy Flows Where Attention Goes”

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